A Letter To Life – #DearZindagi Activity!

“I am writing a letter to life for the #DearZindagi activity at BlogAdda”.

Dear Zindagi,

What should I say about my Zindagi it has been a roller coaster ride till now. I might not write a very good letter about you but I will try my best.

You have given me a lot. Today I am sharing my point of view with you about you. There may be secrets like’s desires expectations & complaints too.

When I started writing this letter & gone back to look upon you it has been very amazing & somewhere disappointing too. From starting I thank you for giving me a beautiful & lovely childhood to me. For giving me my dearest & lovable parents & family any child can get. Not even my parents I thank you for giving me my wonderful grandparents. My grandpa has given so much love to me & also I got so much love care pamper in my childhood that I miss to be a child. Then I thank you to give me my sweetest cute younger brother. He is one with whom I have shared everything. We fight with each other we care for each other we eat we play we do everything with each other. We never needed anyone else to make us happy.

Then I thank you for my school & college days where I have made some sweet & some not so sweet friends from which some are in touch today also & some not. As everyone says i am a shy girl i don’t make friends easily but once I make anyone as my friend then I keep my friendship as last. I really miss my school & college days I have enjoyed a lot in those days. Thank you for giving me the best school & somewhat good college. I also thank you for teaching me a lesson that not everyone deserves your friendship & you should be very careful while choosing your friends. Everyone or I should say our elders say that study hard during school & college days so that you can get a good job & bright future after that once you get a job then you have to enjoy as no tension nothing but this is wrong you Zindagi you have told me that fully enjoy your school college days as these days will never come back work you always have to do & tension is a part of life it never goes from your life.

I use to be very worried about my future that what should I choose what is good for my carrier. Then you have given me a job I really thank you for that because my parents always thought that I should do something & I have also always wished that I have to work & earn my own & not to get dependent on anyone for anything. That’s true because of job I have to live far from my parents & home & I really miss them but if thought then at last i am a girl & one day I have to go far from my parents after marriage so why not today. If I talk about my personal life then I really thank you from my heart for giving me the love of my life. Our relationship is not very old it’s only completed one year but I know it will last forever. If I say he has given me a new Zindagi then it won’t be wrong.

Once you have given me wrong direction where i got blind & was not able to see the truth & what is right what is wrong. He is the one who came in my life & taken out me from that dilemma. Today I am really happy with him because he truly loves me & I thank you for that. Sometimes you have really harsh with me like when I was having some problems in my job but at the end today everything is sorted out. Every struggle in your life has shaped you into the person you are today. Be thankful for the hard times, they can only make you stronger. Thank you for making me what I am today. Thank you for making me independent & strong.

In three words I can sum up everything I have learned about life – it goes on & past never comes back. At last I really look forward for the better future. I really look upon fulfilling my dreams which I have to meet my favourite star SRK because of whom I am writing this letter so that if I got lucky then I may get a chance to meet him Inshallah,  to travel the whole world with my love my partner as i am only 24 there is lot more to come from you. I believe you will make my future better than today with keeping this statement in mind “Walk on with hope in your heart & you will never walk alone”.

Love

Monika

Why Do Women Love Shah Rukh Khan So Much? Here’s The Answer (From SRK Himself)

Shah Rukh Khan has many, many fans, but probably what’s the most incredible thing is that he gets love from women of all ages. Your grandmom probably loves SRK. Your mom loves SRK. You love SRK. You probably inculcate a love for SRK in your kids. Love for SRK is, in fact, something that transcends generations and it is quite an amazing thing to see. And while we all know that we love him for many different reasons, it’s sometimes difficult to pinpoint why exactly women gravitate towards him so much. Well, we probably have the answer for you – and it came from none other than Shah Rukh himself!

When asked about the love he gets from women, he laughed and said that when he was younger, no woman loved him. But it’s clearly different now! Here’s what he said:

I was sitting with friends the other day and I told them, ‘I know the secret to my romance. Why women like me so much.’ It’s because every woman I meet, whether she’s six years or sixty – I dignify her so much that she falls in love with me. I sing a lot of songs, I recite poems, I crack jokes, sometimes I misbehave a little too, I dance in Switzerland, I say weird things… but I think the only reason women like me – because it can’t be for my looks – is because I give them so much dignity. A woman needs only dignity. For me, love to a woman is dignifying her. And I think for a woman, also, she needs nothing – she does not need physical attachment (I may be wrong). She does not need any other value that a man gives a woman. A woman only needs to be dignified by her man. I try my best to dignify every lady that I meet. I think that’s romance. And that’s love.
This is definitely the truth. ❤

These Parenting Lessons From Shah Rukh Khan Proves Why He Is The Best Father

King of Bollywood, Shah Rukh Khan has added so many feathers to his hat but the best one is in his personal life. He is not only a successful person in his professional life but a super successful doting father.

So, here’s giving you few parenting lessons which you can learn from the King Khan.

1. MAKE YOUR KIDS YOUR BEST FRIENDS

Not a strict but a friendly dad.

Lesson from SRK: In an interview:

“I love my children not because they are my children, but because I have garnered a friendship with them. I am realising this… as they are getting older, they are my greatest friends. I think my mental age is between 12 to 14, so it is nice to have two friends that I can ever have.”

Suhana gifted her dad a beautiful friendship band on Friendship Day, prompting the actor to tweet, “Feeling friendly now.”

Inspirational Qoute from SRK: “Do not talk down to your children, talk to them. Become their best buddies!“

2. GIVE THEM THE FREEDOM TO CHOOSE

Nowadays, inter-faith or inter-caste marriages are pretty common. But, the problem arises when a child is born. Which religion should he or she follow?

Lesson from SRK: He has a unique solution for such parents. He says,

“I don’t teach my children what is Hindu and what is Muslim.”

SRK keeps idols of Hindu Gods right next to his Quran. He believes that children should know about God and nothing else. Well, not just this. Shah Rukh Khan has named his youngest son AbRam, and talking about his choice of such a unique name, the actor has been quoted saying,

“His name is based on a variation of Prophet Abraham. And, I liked the connotation that it is kind of a secular name (with the word ‘Ram’ in it).”

Inspirational Qoute from SRK: “Allow your children to grow up in a secular household, and teach them to respect all religions.“

3. TIME OVER MONEY

Many parents feel guilty about the fact that they do not spend enough time with their children. So, they shower their kids with expensive gifts to make up for the lack of time.

Lesson from SRK: Voted to be one of the ‘super dads’ of Bollywood by many leading newspapers time and again, SRK ensures that he makes time for the small pleasures of life. He once stepped out on the streets to take Suhana for her first bike ride. It was an emotional moment for him and he tweeted,

“One of those days when I go through the emotions. Cycling with Suhana was the highlight.. need to do it more.”

Shah Rukh Khan even attends taekwondo tournaments, whenever Suhana and Aryan participate in them. He gives them pep talks before their bouts and cheers the loudest when they win. He drives to the airport to fetch Aryan everytime he comes to visit his parents from London.

Inspirational Qoute from SRK : “Make time to be with your little ones. Presentations will come and go, but your baby’s childhood will never return.“

4. PROTECT YOUR CHILDREN

One must give their children a chance to fight their own battles, but there are times when they need your tender loving care too.

Lesson from SRK: SRK was widely criticised for misbehaving with the guards in Mumbai’s Wankhede stadium, but he still remains unapologetic about it.

“I took little children for the match and 40 grown-up people came charging aggressively at me. I think my behaviour is absolutely correct. I would still do the same thing if they misbehaved with my kids or kids that I am taking care of.”

SRK also does not want his children to be in the media glare and it is for this reason, he sent his son, Aryan, to study abroad, where he will be away from the limelight. Even after his third child AbRam was born, Shah Rukh Khan made the decision of keeping him away from the media glare. He has even said, “He (AbRam) is not meant for flashbulbs. I don’t want him to be a participant in this circus of public life that I am a part of. That is what I do… Public life… The good, bad, ugly, goodness of media, the strangeness… I am part of it, not my children.“

Inspirational Qoute from SRK: “Sometimes it is okay to intervene in your children’s matters if things are going out of hand.“

Why SRK Is The Best- The Reasons Behind It

SRK is a self made celebrity, clever, witty, charming, adores his loved ones, works for charity silently for which even UNESCO has awarded him, performs for eighteen hours each day on average, has no affairs that’s the rarest point in life of the celebrity and respects girls which can be visible in his motion pictures too.

He is not ideal and doesn’t even claim for being so. He accepts his faults, accepts his blunders and moves on. Which makes him human and appropriate to idolize than a lot of others who’re celebs and often faking on their own.

I have achieved him twice. He walks right into a place and also the energy of the room modifications. Most importantly, no matter exactly where he goes, he makes it some extent to tell the audience to respect girls. In his very own daily life, we can see how essential his mom was to his upbringing-he frequently talks about her, how crucial his spouse is to him-she was the primary female he asked out and she or he may be the final! and exactly how essential his daughter and sister are to him. I feel,the respect that he displays to women is incomparable. That is certainly the most important explanation you are able to see many of the women loving him.

 

Let’s see the reasons behind his greatness-

1. He arises from a middle class family. His father was an Indian Independence activist and died when he was fifteen. He misplaced his mother when he was twenty five soon after prolonged disease and made a decision to go after a profession in Bollywood following a handful of roles in Television demonstrates. He climbed up the Bollywood hierarchy from the new comer towards the King of Bollywood all because oh his expertise and tough work. This in alone is a very inspiring tale to any normal person.

2. He is quite talented. I realize there are times when he overacts. But all actors have their instances once they are not capable to execute effectively. He has given us several of the most unforgettable characters – Kabir Khan (Chak De India), Rahul Mehra (Darr), Ajay/Vicky (Baazigar), Sunil (KHKN), Raj (DDLJ), Aman (KHNH) and a lot of far more. He is unmatched by every other actor of his generation with regards to romantic roles. He’s the definitive chocolate hero of India. He has also won quite a few awards. They only kind of verify the fact that he’s certainly a brilliant actor. He’s also immensely talented orator which gives him an edge in excess of a lot of actors.

3. There are actors much much better hunting than him. However, he has one of several premier number of fans. You’ll be able to uncover women who are head over heels in enjoy with him. I particularly feel they are more in enjoy together with the figures he has portrayed. So to mention, he has done some actually very good films and has created some genuinely very good options.
4. His jovial and satisfied go blessed nature is exactly what appeals to his supporters. He’s also quite witty. He is one of several number of actors who managed to remain away from controversies until some time back again. Recently, he’s been in a variety of controversies though. He also manages to maintain good relations with other people in Bollywood, leaving apart number of Khans.

5. He has managed to help keep his individual existence nicely well balanced. He has a Hindu spouse and considers her faith as critical as his. His secular mother nature can make supporters like him all of the far more. Even following his superstar standing, he manages to stay all the way down to earth that’s one thing admirable.

6. He’s one of several number of stars who actually consider threat. Though Ra.1 was beyond horrible (I’m not exaggerating), I nonetheless respect him for trying to bring anything new to Bollywood. I would actually really like if he commenced supporting Indie movies just as much and acted within a number of.

Why “Shah Rukh Khan” is the ‘King Of Hearts’ 💝

1. The ‘King of Hearts’ turns 51 and his teeming fans around the globe have gone into sheer frenzy. We at Times Of India, join in the celebration and list out 5 reasons as to why Shah Rukh Khan, aka Bollywood’s Romantic Raj is the eternal ‘King of Hearts’.
1. SRK is a charmer on-screen and off it
SRK’s easy wit and charm are the stuff legends are made of. Give him a microphone, pour yourself a glass of wine, get some cheese, sit back and relax. He will spin sheer magic with his words and you will be in love before you know it.
2. SRK knows how to make a woman feel special
The ‘Khan of Khans’ respects women, looks out for them, he is chivalrous and charming and this is just one of the many reasons why women might want to take him back home with them.
3. SRK’s riches don’t make him less humble
SRK is the only Indian actor in the Top 10 combined Rich list of Bollywood and Hollywood stars. Khan’s net worth at an approximate $600 Million, pegs him in the A-league, leaving behind Hollywood giants like Tom Cruise, Tom Hanks, Clint Eastwood and Adam Sandler.
4.SRK is a devoted husband and a loving father
Mr Khan is a thorough family man and the whole he’s-so-responsible-and-in control vibe just makes him a lot more likeable. He’s always stood by his wife Gauri and is a pillar of strength and support for his children Suhana, Aryan and little AbRam. He’s easily the one of the hottest husbands on the block and the most doting father in tinsel town.
5. SRK makes you laugh and cry at the same time
Well, mostly because he’s so hot. We mean he oozes charm that is sure to make you shed a tear or two and squeal in sheer joy at the same time. He has that effect on his fans also because of his performances. The SRK of ‘Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna’ made us cry a bucket full of tears and the SRK of ‘Dear Zindagi’ makes us clap our hands in sheer joy.

Shahrukh Khan Why I love him! 💜

Bollywood before and after Shahrukh Khan are two different worlds altogether. One may have star quality, but the other, with Shahrukh Khan reigning supreme, is exciting, energetic, dynamic, loaded with

As the superstar completes two decades in Bollywood, we list his quirky contributions, onscreen and off screen
Bollywood before and after Shahrukh Khan are two different worlds altogether. One may have star quality, but the other, with Shahrukh Khan reigning supreme, is exciting, energetic, dynamic, loaded with the champagne-fizz of his presence. He has just completed 20 years in the Bollywood that he has helped shape, working in more than 60 films! Yet in every one of them he has collaborated with the director to bring out something that was uniquely his own. These quirks became his trademarks, and made it easier for mimicry artists to poke fun at him. Off screen too, Shahrukh has stayed true to the man he is and has come up with quotable quotes that have even jaded mediapersons grinning. And even as we chuckle, we look back at his time in the arc-lights to discover 20 of his contributions to Hindi cinema:

Impish charm: He is a loveable rogue. The one who will deliberately delay his love interest so that she misses her train and they can spend more time together, but doesn’t take advantage of her. Other Khans tried it in other films, but failed to succeed.

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Floppy hair: Ramesh Sippy once told him during the shoot of Zamaana Deewana that his hair would be the bane of his career. But it went onto just add an endearing quality to his smile that could make you forgive him for all his faults.

Twist your legs and spread your arms wide: The classic SRK pose. It is identified with him so much that even Riteish Deshmukh tried to copy it in F.A.L.T.U. He didn’t quite manage the same effect, but you know that when Shahrukh does it he will definitely get the girl.

Stammer: When Shakti Kapoor stammers, he becomes the butt of all jokes. When Shahrukh stammers, he scares you. His Kkkkk… Kiran in Darr is iconic.

Anti-hero you root for: He is the guy who scares the lady he claims to love, tries to murder her true love, and even throws women off rooftops, all without blinking an eyelid. Yet, when he is fighting for his last breath, you are on his side. SRK made plotting murder the new sexy.

Wit: Ask any journo and they’ll tell you that Shahrukh is always a good two hours late for any press conference, even if the venue is the hotel next to his home. But when he does arrive and begins to speak, he will have you hanging on to every word he utters. You will laugh so hard that you’ll easily forgive him for keeping you waiting. His witty remarks and innuendos make for exciting stories.

Unconventional looks: He doesn’t have the classic good looks of Aamir Khan or Hrithik Roshan. What he does have is a crooked nose, uneven lips, a short and thin build and a pair of beautiful eyes. Yet he remains the undisputed king of romance.

Family man: Bollywood stars were always tagged as ‘philanderers’. But Shahrukh’s real life love story, his rock solid marriage and the absence of link ups with his female co-stars while admitting to being friends with them has shown the cynics for 20 years that it is not impossible for a Bollywoodwallah to be a family man. One of the reasons that the recent rumour of his alleged affair with Priyanka Chopra was shocking but unbelievable.

She is worth it: His heroines are not simpering females. They are strong, independent women with a mind of their own. He makes you believe that whoever you are – be it a single mother as in My Name Is Khan or a citizen of an enemy country as in Veer Zaara – you are worth loving and dying for.